How to Design the Perfect Romantic Bedroom

Men are from Mars; women are from Venus. 

We’ve all heard the phrase, and we’ve probably all felt that way at some point. But when it comes to interior design, there’s one room in every home where the planets are meant to align, the Master Bedroom.

Designing a romantic master bedroom that appeals to both individuals in a couple presents a unique challenge and opportunity. When done thoughtfully, it can bring two worlds together and create a custom-made sanctuary, whether that be a calming space apart from the busy pace of everyday life or a space that delights them both and frees them from worry. The goal is always to create a haven where the couple can delight in the love they have for each other.

Neutral ground

One of the first things to consider in designing a room is the color scheme. The use of rosy pinks and bold purples may appeal to her, but however lovely the space is, it would most likely not feel inviting to him. Likewise, deep forest greens or navy blues may make him feel right at home, but leave her feeling like she’s visiting a bachelor pad, even if it is a stylish one.

When it comes to romantic bedrooms, neutral is the way to go. Not only is a neutral palette universally soothing, it is also common ground for him and her.

There are many ways to use complementary neutral tones to create a warm space that’s as pleasing to the eye as it is calming to the mind. Textures can also be introduced to add visual and even tactile interest. In one of New York’s most luxurious hotels, the Chatwal, suede walls the color of honey provide the perfect backdrop for warm, subtle lighting and provide balance for the elegant curves and lines of the Art Deco inspired rooms.

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The Gritti Palace, in Venice, Italy,  features luxurious rooms with exquisite details and fantastic waterfront views. The warm wood tones beautifully contrast with the patterned fabrics.

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With a décor of Sultan elegance and breathtaking views of the Bospherus, the Çırağan Palace, in Istanbul, Turkey uses neutral tones perfectly in a warm, enriching style.

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Stella's Neutrals

Perfectly placed shades of cream and beige complement the elegant neutrals in this Master Bedroom done by Stella Ludwig Interiors. Here, the textures of a fur throw, tufted headboard, and brocade bedspread are illuminated by the warm glow of an antique Venetian chandelier, giving this room its feeling of timeless luxury.

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Harmony is created between old and new, with the combination of antique and modern chandeliers. Striped globe hanging pendants were chosen instead of traditional table lamps in this room design. Having different sources of light throughout a room gives the flexibility to create any mood you desire. Tables that speak to each other through their curvy forms and color rather than being identical give voice and interest to this romantic master bedroom.

Vive la difference

While a neutral palette provides a soothing common ground for a couple, it’s only half of the equation: the key to a perfectly designed romantic bedroom is balancing the common ground with elements that give him and her a sense of their own space. Just as a couple is the union of two individuals, their private oasis should be a room that celebrates their unity while honoring their individuality.

There’s a little alcove just for him, and one for her, in this design by Stella Ludwig Interiors. Each person has his or her own chair, and details that personalize the space. This elegant jewelry tree serves a functional purpose while adding a sculptural element to her special place in the room. Looking to bring a little more Diva into Her side of the space? Here's some great guidance from Stella on bringing more personality into your bedroom.

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Tying it all together

The Chatwal Hotel does it with vintage Louis Vuitton wooden trunks and leather-wrapped closet doors, inspired by antique Louis Vuitton traveling trunks. Inside, exquisite wood hosts a secret bar and a safety box for convenience and comfort.

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Stella Ludwig Interiors hand selected a one of a kind handcrafted wooden French chest by Grange to provide character to the room. Stella created function by taking advantage of every corner and infusing equal amounts of beauty and "workability". Glass shelves are perfectly placed in the room, holding her favorite bags, shoes, and anything else she might want to keep at her fingertips when getting ready.

Quality is the thread that ties the room together: quality pieces chosen with a discerning eye, placed in a way that serve the function of the room and the personalities of the couple who will live, love and dream there.

Designing a romantic bedroom may not be an easy task, but it is a labor of love. If you live in the greater Philadelphia area and are looking for assistance with creating a summer palette in your home, contact us and schedule a complimentary 15 minute phone call to discuss how we can work together.

Stella Ludwig Interiors is an award-winning boutique design firm specializing in high-end residential design. Located in the historic Rittenhouse Square area, we service discerning professional clients, empty nesters, and busy executives, as well as international families living in the Greater Philadelphia region and beyond. We are known for creating distinctive interiors that exude elegance with style and panache, and feel privileged to work in an ever-changing creative industry that allows us to use our experience and talents to bring joy to those we serve. Stella Ludwig Interiors projects and ideas have been featured in Architectural Digest, Philly Home Magazine, Philadelphia Style, Philadelphia Magazine, Suburban Life magazine, Kravet Design Share and real estate and design industry blogs.

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